I think this is probably one of THE biggest differences between One Tree Martial Arts and other martial arts schools. It is that OTMA students learn to serve others with their skills rather than themselves.
Don't get me wrong, I not saying that all other schools train their students to become self centered, self serving thugs. But the general trend in martial arts in the US is to compete to be the flashiest, loudest and most self confident one on the floor at any particular time. It is the goal to be recognized and praised publicly for your accomplishments.
I personally do not think this is TRUE martial arts. The true martial artist is meek. Again, don't get me wrong, I said meek not week. Obviously a well trained martial artist is by no means week. In fact, one who is a skilled martial artist is probably one of the strongest people you can meet. But a true master of his or her art doesn't flaunt it like is the custom today in the US. Rather they conceal their strength behind a demeanor of humility and gentleness.
I think it would do the reputation of the martial arts in general great good if we would all train with the goal of becoming better equipped to help others. I realize that it isn't everyday that we come across someone being assaulted on the street, but there are many times that we can help an elderly person mow their lawn or shovel snow. We may have the opportunity to help someone with a project, do an errand for someone in need, teach or mentor someone struggling at school or step in and take charge of a responsibility that nobody else wants.
By taking the time to help others with these things we are exhibiting a humble spirit and a servants attitude. Both which are desirable traits of a true martial artist. Jesus once said, "he who wants to be the greatest among you must first learn to be the servant of all".
I think that this attitude is encouraged at OTMA. And I think it is one way that One Tree Martial Arts is very different than many other martial arts schools.
_________________
Shortcuts make for long detours.